Early in my Christianity the Lord let me know that it is
important to minister to others in a way that they will grow and be healed. Someone
once told me not to set a can of food in front of a hungry person and expect
them to no longer be hungry. The can of
food represents a contained lesson from the Lord. We might understand the lesson that the Lord
has shared with us, but in order for someone else to benefit from our lesson,
we are given a gift by which to “serve” it to the hearer. In the 40 + years
since then the Lord has been teaching me how to open the can, cook and season
it, and serve the spiritual food to others.
He has been developing my personal gift.
The Lord wants to develop all of our personal gifts so that
we can minister to others, benefiting and growing God’s people into a healthy,
functional body (Eph 4:15-16). I would
like to share some of the steps the Lord has taught me in order to be effective
when “serving” a can of spiritual food.
·
Give what is permanent, lasting, and
eternal. The word of God fits this
description. Scripture, prophecy, word of
knowledge, word of wisdom, and revelation are all the word of God. Giving our opinions is not permanent and may
be false knowledge.
·
Be succinct. The longer we speak, the more we risk “ruining
the hearers.” Over-explaining things is our attempt to bring
understanding. That is the Holy Spirit’s
job (understanding). If we truly want to
partner with the Lord in ministry, we must give Him room to speak to the hearts
of people too.
·
Be personally interested in the person you are
ministering to. Do not use a method to determine when to speak or what to talk
about. Do not form knowledge into
categories and apply them to a person’s problems. Learn to listen to what the person is saying,
and hear what the Holy Spirit has to tell you about it. Then your ministry will be pure and not
influenced by the teachings of men who want to organize things by their carnal
teaching. And be hospitable.
·
Nurture the person’s soul with something fresh
and pertinent. Do not think that all
problems are based in the person’s past, or due to their upbringing. Validate their needs, take time (never be in
a hurry), and find God’s word for that one person standing before you.
·
Develop your own understanding of God’s lessons
by studying and cross-referencing scripture.
Remember that Jesus is the Word of God (Jn 1:1) and is coming back as
the Word of God (Rev 19:13). He will not give us revelation on what He has
given us apart from the scriptures. In fact, we have no business teaching other
people if we haven’t first studied God’s word (2nd Tim 2:15).
·
As Jesus is the Word of God in the flesh, so
should we be. Obedience is key to this
(see abiding in the vine from John 15).
And, as we become obedient to the word of God, we should encourage
others to do the same. If we have really
stood in God’s presence we would know that His counsel to men and women
includes His call for their obedience (Jer 23:22).
·
There is a spiritual war going on. People come
to us confused and wounded. Be
compassionate. In serving the spiritual food
to them, season it with salt (love) (Mt 5:13).
Jesus had compassion on the crowds, and we can certainly have compassion
for the one standing before us.
·
Unity comes by the Holy Spirit (Eph 4:3) and not
by conformity. If the people you
minister with do not have unity, they may be ministering, at least in part,
carnally. Also, some ministries that are
genuinely from the Lord will be rejected by other ministers for various
reasons. If you are established by the
Lord in your words and ministry, stay faithful to what you are doing. God will put you in a place where others will
benefit from your gift.
·
Don’t be exclusive about whom you hang around
with. We’re not all too holy to brush
shoulders with weaker brethren. If we
are indeed strong, we’re to help them.
·
Great care goes into each child of God’s
upbringing. He has nurtured their
lives. When He brings someone before us
for ministry, we must take care also. Do
not hastily give words “by faith” to satisfy someone’s needs. Wait on the Lord. If He speaks nothing to you, be humble and
tell the other person that God has not shared anything with you yet. If you will see them again, take their phone
number. Pray for them. But do not give words that are from your own
spirit (Jer 23:16; Ez 13:3). Some of the most significant ministry the Lord has
led me to do has come later, when I could again meet with a person. It gave the Lord time to go deep and reveal
many hidden things that needed to be addressed.
If I had been hasty this opportunity would have been lost.
·
Do not think it is insignificant that a person
stands before you for ministry. It is
false humility to think that you are being proud to use your gift for another
person’s benefit. God may have brought
that person for a word of encouragement, a prophecy, or help mowing their
lawn. Take time to ask the Lord about
each person’s needs, even if you may be used to facilitate their care through another
person. Find what you are called to do.
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